Having been out for almost a week and is now sporting pretty tan lines, I know there are so much writing in tow. There are so many insights I would want to unleash but for some reason, I am afraid I cannot publish such thoughts.
But I can be discreet.
Over the weekend, an old friend asked me out on a date. It is common knowledge that I have been in a relationship with my beau for 4 years now and it surprised me that this old friend bluntly asked me out on a date - just like that. I was totally caught off guard, so I just laughed it off and politely declined his offer.
After such temporary silence, he called me again - almost nagging me why we should go out and be merry like what old friends do. I listened to him as he paraded all his good intentions and I was amazed at how he almost begged to win my yes for a fancy dinner date. It was a pretty much an old conversation but what bothered me now is when he said that I am a two-timer magnet. He, for some reason, cannot compute in his mind why am I being faithful when I always end up being with a two-timer.
To be tagged a two-timer magnet is a very bitter pill to swallow but I am quite good now in ignoring such name-calling.
You see, I know what its like to be betrayed for I have been there so many times and I am telling you, it was a very narrow and difficult road but that will not make me stoop and do the same things. I am not going to use that as an excuse for me not to stay faithful. A wrong cannot be corrected by another wrong, I was told by my Mom.
People can call me "pity" for deciding not to be a loose woman for all I care. I just simply intend to be faithful to the love I promised to keep.
To be different has always been my choice.
But I can be discreet.
Over the weekend, an old friend asked me out on a date. It is common knowledge that I have been in a relationship with my beau for 4 years now and it surprised me that this old friend bluntly asked me out on a date - just like that. I was totally caught off guard, so I just laughed it off and politely declined his offer.
After such temporary silence, he called me again - almost nagging me why we should go out and be merry like what old friends do. I listened to him as he paraded all his good intentions and I was amazed at how he almost begged to win my yes for a fancy dinner date. It was a pretty much an old conversation but what bothered me now is when he said that I am a two-timer magnet. He, for some reason, cannot compute in his mind why am I being faithful when I always end up being with a two-timer.
To be tagged a two-timer magnet is a very bitter pill to swallow but I am quite good now in ignoring such name-calling.
You see, I know what its like to be betrayed for I have been there so many times and I am telling you, it was a very narrow and difficult road but that will not make me stoop and do the same things. I am not going to use that as an excuse for me not to stay faithful. A wrong cannot be corrected by another wrong, I was told by my Mom.
People can call me "pity" for deciding not to be a loose woman for all I care. I just simply intend to be faithful to the love I promised to keep.
To be different has always been my choice.
