Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Rumor Says



One vice I “proudly” share with my friends and beau is our hearty talks. With my beau, we tackle anything and everything – from uber serious topics, our relationship and issues to really non-sense ones. There is almost nothing in this world that ever tops the feeling after having such honest hearty talks with the people considered dear.

The relationship that I lovingly share with my man is unique, has withstand heartbreaks worthy of the Greeks and during such trying times, we have learned that love is not just about feelings. It is also about staying committed even if it does not feel good. Everyday, we both decide to love each other however difficult, sometimes.

For several years now, malicious lurkers have endlessly hounded me for whatever reason but my wildest guess is that – their stalking has something to do with the relationship I lovingly keep. I have tried to forever decipher their motives but I could only allot so much of my time thinking. They can do whatever they want, I know that one day, I will emerge victorious with my hand clasped with my man’s.

Amidst all the nudging from unknown and unwanted people, something really funny came out of it. I received a text message telling me that news has been allegedly circling that my man and I have broken up, that I went astray and left for another man. The anonymous sender was even kind enough to ask, “How are you na?”

OH. MY. EFFING. CROW.

Really? There has been some news circling that we have broken up? And because of another man? WOW. Not that I am trying to paint myself as a saint but being a loose woman has never been part of my to do list. It has never landed on my journal pages at all! I started to think that maybe I was the wrong person in this story. That they just got it all wrong. Maybe they just got mixed up with the names and era.

Oh well. Hands down talaga to these lurkers. For the first 4 years they were pretty much consistent with their story but now on their 5th year in this “lurking business”, a new story unfolds. Such fictional writers and they actually write a so Pinoy story; you can tell that these people have been watching too much soap opera. Bah!

Naturally, I shared this new story with my man (as I have always done so in the past) and at almost unholy hour, we shared a good laugh and talked about Church hopping, motiffs and guests list.

You see. It really takes so much more than creating fake stories to put us down.