I have always considered myself blessed (despite of all the trials) mainly because my siblings and I grew up in an environment where we have so much to be thankful for. And even if we do not always have what we want, we would always get what we need.
God has blessed us to grow up with wonderful grandparents. My Lolo (Grandfather, Mom's side) passed away last December 2009 and despite his grumpy ways of saying he cared, he left a huge mark and a void that cannot be filled. That only he can fill.
My most loved and favorite GrandMa ever is Iya (an endearment for Lola). I consider her a strong pillar and has a huge impact in my life by being there for me since the day I was born.
At the time (late 50's) when most women would be a mother and a homemaker, Iya tackled the road of being out in the field to work. Helping my Lolo bring a steady income in their growing family (they have 6 kids). She had a gorgeous collection of bags, accessories and really nice clothes - some of which were already handed down to me. This is why, I think, I have this knack for bags and accessories. :)
I have always considered her to be strong - physically, mentally and emotionally. This is why I easily broke down when I first realized that she is slowly losing her bearing to Alzheimer's. When suddenly, she has to depend on everyone at home to fulfill her needs.
A couple of days ago, I have been told that she suffered a mild stroke and is now confined at Makati Med. I wanted to go see her and stay at the hospital when I don't have to go to work but it might be risky for my 29 weeks-old baby in my tummy. I would just usually get updates from my Mom and brother.
Iya is fighting and responding well. The clots just went away, allowing her to move her hands and arms. Thankfully, she was not paralyzed. She just find it difficult to swallow and people around her could hardly understand what she is saying.
Mom said that Iya is back to her usual self - grumpy at times and playful. She just have to undergo therapy to help her swallow. But her vital signs are normal. :)
These are trying times yet again for our family but I put my trust in the Lord that He will provide, alleviate the pain and that His ways are ALWAYS for the good.
You bind the broken hearted
And save all my tears
By Your word, You set the captives free
There is nothing in this world
That You cannot do
I simply live, I simply live for You
And save all my tears
By Your word, You set the captives free
There is nothing in this world
That You cannot do
I simply live, I simply live for You
PS:
To anyone who is reading this piece, I humbly ask to please include my Iya in your prayers.
Thank you.
